As my fella likes to remind me,
I’m surprised I have to tell you this:

If you think you’re having fun,
you are.

If you think you’re miserable,
you are.

Which would you rather be?

What about taking delight
in your blessedly fabulous

imperfection? And then
finding joy in the flawed bits

anyway, living lighthearted
just because you can.

(for Kevin Just, who is 34 today, with love from Aunt Jan)