It’s the old-fashioned hand signal for “stop”
or “slow down” that gets me, fingers hanging loosely,
elbow turned up, lower arm browned from
frequent out-the-window airings. And I—
piloting my mother’s car that I used to
drive her on Momdays—think, “Father.”
On a June day like this one, on my way to
the car wash, which he would heartily approve,
I see him in a stranger’s arm in the left turn lane,
Then he appears beside me, riding shotgun, grinning
his delighted, atta-girl grin as Mother hovers, too,
just for a moment, a quick drop-in to remind me
of their constant, nothing-but-love presence,
more than enough to last me the rest of my days.


Hi Mom and Dad!!
Yes! I’m sure they ride shotgun with you, too… especially when you have babies in the car. Mom’s gotta be there, singing “Alfred the Alligator,” right?!
Indeed she is!