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though I didn’t see it then,
muddled in grief and regret,
unable to recognize anything
but the gone-ness of her.

And it took time—far too long,
it seemed—to absorb the here-ness
of her, still so present if I could
let my mind to drift her way
without allowing the cloud
of sorrow to automatically
overtake me.

I gradually learned to hear
her voice as though she’d just
called to arrange dinner out
and a trip to the bookstore after,
her voice trailing into my ear:

Mexican? Japanese? What
are you hungry for? Maybe
the Indian place on Broadway?

Then I could summon
seasoned joy, recall conversations
that seemed ordinary at the time,
not acknowledging, despite
the diagnosis, that there would
be a finite number, an end date.

And as I type now, I hear
her dropping in:
What end date? You think
this is over?

And there’s her wicked good
laugh echoing through the ether,
her presence eliciting a chuckle,
as she always has.

(for Georgann Turner, March 1, 1951–Aug. 17, 2021)

—for Richard L. Tracy,
garden editor, The Sacramento Bee (ret.)

Our hero in so many ways—
comical and horticultural,
good person of the earth.

Dear friend, father, husband,
fine writer and photographer,
raconteur, he of the wicked wit,
has announced his imminent
departure.

And we wonder if,
just before his last breath,
he will slowly raise
his left hand toward his mouth
and announce into his
atomic-powered, two-way
wrist radio,

“Roger wilco, over and out.”

(for Donna Gail)

Maybe because we flatlanders shiver
under skies delivering rare bits
of snow, while our neighbors
2,500 feet higher have been told
to expect eight inches tomorrow
and ten inches the next day,
which is far from usual for them,

and maybe because every winter
I forget what 105 degree days
feel like as my feet complain that
they will never be truly warm again,

but stumbling around online,
I find myself lusting after a girly
pink 1961 Holiday House trailer,
one of only 200 made that year
in southern Oregon designed by
a guy who created a now-famous
mail-order fruit basket company
and wanted to keep his workers
busy during the off season.

My sister would’ve been a year
old when this baby was new,
and I’d have been three, but I can
see us a few years later eating
at the starburst Formica table,
looking out the windows with
the skinny metal blinds, napping
on the cozy bed, opening the pink
fridge for some Kool-Aid,

Dad and Mom having hitched us
up to the ’57 Chevy and set off
for someplace warm with a lake,
summer on full blast, not a
snowflake in sight.

(For more photos of the 1961 pink Holiday House trailer, click here.)

(a nod to Shel Silverstein)

But, really, who else could you be?
You have to be you, as I have to be me.

If I tried to be you, I surely could not,
nor would I want to be.

For you are the very best you
as I am the very best me.

So you as you and me as me,
together let’s be we.*

(*Or, if you insist, “us,” my grammatically correct friends.)

(for Ursula, who said, “This sounds like a poem”)

For a long time I shut my
poetself tightly in a closet
crammed full of miscellaneous
words and stray lines,

and over the years it got
quite crowded in there,
just me and all that verbiage.
And now and then I’d unlock

the door, peek out at the
Real Poets poeting their
hearts out, boldly, unafraid,
flinging stanzas and sonnets,

chapbooks and publications
into the world. And though
they never did anything
to actively discourage me,

neither did they invite me
to poetic coffee chats or
share a draft or ask to see
one of mine.

I can’t recall the day when
I decided to use the key,
burst out of the closet,
poems in hand, ready to

fling them at unsuspecting
folks, but when I did, I
remembered that as a child,
I’d scribbled in notebooks,

filling one and offering it to
a friend as a gift, then going
on to the next and the next—
unafraid of whether

Real Writers thought my
pieces were good enough,
just poeting and storying
my own heart out.

So now I Poet in public
and urge others to do
the same, not worrying
whether pieces are met

with cheers or ignored—
a daily practice like
meditation or yoga or
putting on a favorite

pair of shoes, lacing
them up and heading
out for a walk, paper
and pen in a pocket,

ready to capture
an image as it floats
by, setting down a
line if one comes,

grateful for the gift.

They once looked so much alike
that they had a hard time telling
themselves apart in photos.

I stood on the right, Mary would
say to Sheila, and the identical girls
would agree—that’s you; that’s me.

Seeing them is a highlight of our
year—Sheila does Dick’s taxes;
Mary does mine—each of them

sitting with one of us in their
back-to-back offices, catching up
on the news of the year, which

we will all later share with
the one not in the room. We
are tickled that we can once

again see the sisters in person,
sit across from them as their
fingers fly over calculator keys,

eyes on computer screens as
they chat, ink in numbers by hand
on worksheets—all in an hour.

And though I dread the annual
sorting of paperwork, the assembly
of little piles in my living room,

the adding, the notations, I smile,
knowing that I get to watch Mary
in action, as Dick marvels over Sheila.

Even when I’m likely gonna have
to write a couple of big checks, I also
know that Mary and Sheila have

done their best work for us,
taking excellent care of our taxes.
And what’s better than paying

a rainy day visit to the talented
twin accountants who’ve made
our lives, in so many ways,

so much brighter?

for Mom and Dad,
one here, one always in our hearts

Of course, I wasn’t there,
but I see them in the photo—
her, slim, dark-haired and lovely
in her sleeveless tea dress

with the floral lace over
the foofy skirt, as her eventual
daughters would come to call
the fullness of petticoat,

and him, slim, blond,
handsome in a dark suit
and perfectly tied tie that
perhaps she helped him choose.

After vows and cake cutting
and kisses bestowed upon beaming,
smooth-cheeked relatives, I hope
they danced, his hand

on her waist, one of her hands
in his, to some romantic song,
gazing into each other’s eyes
with longing, perhaps imagining

the promise of what was to come—
not that night or the next or the next,
but gliding to music that would
carry them far into the future,

making a life together,
making children together,
unaware of what was coming
toward them, what they were

heading into. I want them to have
had the sweetness of a moment
of possibility, overflowing with hope,
with the promises they’d just made

bursting in their tender hearts.

Six neighbors head out
on their morning stroll as
six of us oldies work out
to the oldies with Shelley
on Marilyn’s lawn.

The couple across the street
emerges from their house, each
holding onto a leash-tugging dog,
and two leashless cats trailing
a good distance behind,
like teenagers not wanting
to be seen with their parents—
but not wanting to be left out.

The hefty calico and equally
ample gray tabby with white
undercarriage amble along,
as they often do with their
people, Marilyn says, and
we all stop to watch.

Do the cats always come
along? we ask the couple.

When they feel like it,
the woman responds.

Cats, someone says,
and we all nod.

Later, as we oldies heft
hand weights overhead,
the party of six rounds
the block, and we stop to
cheer them on, especially
the cats, both of them far
behind, trotting to catch up—
their workout almost over—
heading for the barn and,
with luck, a nice snack.

We hear about the late ones—
maybe we are the late ones—
but the early ones present
their show-offy selves on dates
that seem too early,

but really, they do this every year,
I remind myself. The Yuletide
camellias appear for Christmas,
and by February, their cousins
hang heavy on the bushes,

making my neck swivel as I drive
by so many other early bloomers
blushing pinks or bursting whites
on branches that just yesterday
looked like barren sticks.

Crabapple blossoms impersonate
mini tutus for tiny ballerinas,
and magnolias emerge saucer-y
white and rosey, while sweet
redbuds cheerfully climb

vertical branches on creekside
trees. And don’t get me started
on almond blossoms exploding
in a torrent of snowy fluff
already, so soon, right on time,

just when we need a deluge
of loveliness, a gush of flourishing
to remind us that this is just
the beginning, that there’s so
much more yet to come.

for Rebecca

Made by her mama in Grandma’s
Jello mold, just the way G made it—
with canned fruit and whipped cream
to dab on top—

served at her mama’s house after
a fine dinner out, a childhood favorite
of this kid now 45, tall and gorgeous
as ever (we’re just a tad biased, but
we’re not wrong).

And though we’d been well fed at
the restaurant (some of us had dessert
there, too), the cry went round:

There’s always room for Jello!

So we spooned up the red sweetness
into G’s bowls older than any of us,
plopped the whipped cream on top
and dug in,

the collection of humans that makes up
this family—some by birth, some by choice—
delighted to celebrate two birthdays
(not forgetting the 80-year-old uncle)

as we remember the ancestors, the ones
who’ve passed into mystery, holding
them in our hearts, saying their names,
tasting the love on our tongues,
swallowing it with big smiles.